Do not lose your identity while being in a relationship
January 6 kathmandu .Everyone searches for a partner in their life who loves them unconditionally. Usually, it is difficult to find such a partner. However, once people choose such a partner, they do not want to lose them at any cost.
They fall so much in love with each other that they lose their identity in the relationship. However, this does not mean that their relationship is bad. But it is also very important to maintain your own identity in a relationship.
This is how people lose their identity in a relationship
After getting into a relationship, people start molding themselves according to their partner to get closer to them. They start considering their choice as their own. As the relationship progresses, people get completely immersed in it and even lose their own identity.
This is how you can protect your identity in a relationship
In an attempt to please their partner in a relationship, people gradually lose their identity and do not even know when this happened. However, by keeping some things in mind, one can save his identity.
Set boundaries in the relationship
It is very important to set boundaries in a relationship. This gives space and time for personal growth. Feel free to tell your partner about the things that you absolutely cannot tolerate. Healthy boundaries protect partners from losing themselves in the relationship.
Don’t distance yourself from friends
You must have met many people in your life who stop meeting friends after getting into a relationship. This should not be done at all. It is very important to maintain friendships outside the relationship. Friendship reminds you who you are as a person. It helps in managing social life outside the relationship.
Focus on your target
Being in a relationship is a very good thing, but it does not mean that you get lost in it and forget the goal of your life. Despite being in a relationship, always keep your goal in mind and keep making continuous efforts to achieve it.
Don't compromise on your choice
In a relationship, people like to spend their entire life around their partner. They like the same kind of music, food and destinations, but this should not be done at all. If your choice is different, then instead of compromising, definitely tell your partner about it.
Give priority to yourself
Partners in a relationship often give priority to each other. They show love and care for each other, keep each other happy. Meanwhile, they often forget to give priority to themselves. Keep in mind that by not giving time to themselves, they can completely lose their identity.
Give enough time to family
After getting into a relationship, do not forget your family at all. Keep in mind that no one else but your family supports you in your happiness and sorrows. If you suddenly stop giving time to your family, then it is no less than a shock for them. So carry both love and family together.
Give priority to your own work
Make a list of your current needs and tasks. Include your 10 priority works in it. Note that these are the things that are important for you, but you are not able to do them. What this means is that along with giving time to your partner, you should also fulfill your needs. Do not procrastinate for this.
Have a clear conversation
Honesty and clear communication strengthens the relationship with your partner. Tell your partner how you feel, what you like and what you dislike. The only way to fix a relationship is to recognize its flaws. So always communicate openly with your partner.
Participate in your favourite activities
Don't stop indulging in things you love, like playing cricket, travelling, attending music concerts, etc. It is important to keep your favourite activities separate from the relationship. It helps in maintaining your own identity.
Disadvantages of losing your identity in a relationship
Losing your identity in a relationship can have many disadvantages, which affect a person from a mental and emotional point of view
Overall, no matter how much you love your partner, it is important to maintain your identity in the relationship. Sometimes, due to its lack, the relationship starts feeling like a burden. This can lead to things like low self-esteem, emotional imbalance, lack of decision-making ability, lack of independence, dissatisfaction in relationships and changes in personality. To avoid these, it is important to maintain your identity while being in a relationship and also give importance to yourself.
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