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Beauty is not the key to success

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Beauty is not the key to success

February 27,Kathmandu.You must have noticed that some people do good work, yet they do not get better opportunities. On the other hand, the beautiful looking faces working with them get more opportunities than others, despite working less. Have you ever wondered what could be the reason behind this? Actually, this is called 'Pretty Privilege'.

In our society, attractive and beautiful looking people are generally considered more intelligent, sensible and capable than less beautiful looking people. This is called the Hollow Effect.

Beautiful faces have many advantages in our society. You must have noticed that from classrooms to office spaces, people who look beautiful get special attention.

In fact, 'Pretty Privilege' is a truth which is difficult to accept but impossible to deny.

What's the reason behind 'Pretty Privilege'?

According to a research published on Science Direct, beautiful looking faces are considered intelligent. People believe that beautiful people have friendly behavior. Also, people believe that beautiful people have more confidence than others. The reason behind this is the Hollow Effect, in which it is believed that whatever looks beautiful is good.

The impact of 'Pretty Privilege' on life

This is a social and psychological perception. In this, beautiful people get more opportunities and facilities knowingly or unknowingly. This privilege is seen in many professions, where beautiful people are preferred more. Such people easily get jobs, friends and love. 

Let us understand in detail

Impact on professional life According to American author Daniel Hamermesh's book Beauty Page, beautiful people not only get higher salaries, but are also considered more socially competent and confident. These people get more opportunities for jobs and promotions. Especially, beautiful people get a lot of 'pretty privilege' in the fashion and entertainment industry.

Impact on social life 'Pretty privilege' has a profound impact on people's professional life as well as social life. Such people get positive responses since childhood, which increases their self-confidence. They feel more comfortable due to greater acceptance in society and getting many opportunities in career.

This can be understood from the example that beautiful people get more likes and followers on social media platforms like Instagram, Facebook or Snapchat. Big brands also give more opportunities to beautiful influencers for advertising. Many times the mistakes of beautiful people are ignored, while other people have to face more criticism.

Do beautiful people suffer from this too?

Generally we feel that looking beautiful is beneficial, but sometimes the ability of some people is ignored due to their beauty.

How to Beat 'Pretty Privilege'

Dr. explains that in our society people give more importance to beauty. This is the reason why some people make it a part of their identity. However, a good thing is that you can change the definition of beauty in your own way and develop a new thinking. Here we will discuss some easy ways by which you can change your perspective.

Body Neutrality: If body positivity is difficult for you, then you should adopt body neutrality. For this, it is important that you do not consider your body as just an object to be seen, but recognize its strength and capabilities. Give more importance to the functionality of the body than its beauty.

Self acceptance: Whether society accepts you or not, the most important thing is that you accept yourself. It is important to understand that your beauty or comparison with others does not determine your self-worth. Start talking positively about yourself. Keep your self-confidence high. If negative thoughts are bothering you, then seek help from therapy.

Positive Circle: Surround yourself with friends and people who love you without any conditions. Stay away from people who compare you to others.

Be genuinely nice. People who are genuinely nice are also considered beautiful. People who are kind, honest and empathetic tend to look more beautiful over time. Many people don't look special at first glance and people don't like them, but their niceness gradually makes them beautiful.

Reflect upon your own thinking: Before society speaks, ask yourself, do I judge others on the basis of their looks? If you take advantage of your good looks, then try to understand the experiences of those who are deprived of it. It is important to understand that people should judge you not just by your looks, but by your true abilities.


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